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Coronavirus Anxiety: Information & Support

As the coronavirus spreads, more and more people are becoming anxious about what it might mean for themselves and their loved ones. It’s completely understandable (and normal!) to feel anxious about this emerging health crisis. As part of efforts to take care of your body and mind, here are some tips that might help in tolerating these uncertain times.

When stressed, our brains want us to be able to predict and consider the worst-case scenarios to help us prepare and protect ourselves. This is great when there is a way of problem-solving the situation – not so great when there isn’t. Our brains are predisposed to focus on the threat. We will forget the “every day” and bring full attention to things which are scary, without taking time to really think about the facts.

For example, we might think nothing of getting in our cars every day but be scared of spiders, even though evidence suggests that we are more likely to be at risk in a car, than from a spider.

Furthermore, as a species, we are not very good at tolerating uncertainty, something that in the current climate we might need to allow! Our minds want us to have explanations so when we can’t find them our brains will fill in the gaps, and if anxiety has any say these explanations will be usually based on our biggest fears.

Anxiety can snowball; we start with one worry and before we know where we are it’s grown and grown and we’re now heading for a full-on catastrophe (the “what if”… “but then what if…” scenario). Even when the likelihood of each possible thing coming true may be minimal. Anxious thoughts get in the way of our minds taking in what we need to know and deciphering fact from fiction.

Limit your news intake

The uncertainty of the coronavirus is scary. And scary gets our attention! However, it might help to try to stay grounded and get the facts instead of allowing our minds to make up the information for us. Try to find a source of information that is reliable. Snippets of information from social media may represent one person’s worry thoughts, rather than the actual risk/facts. Make sure you are informed but not overloaded – consider limiting your exposure to information. For example, by restricting where you go to find information to reputable sources (such as the NHS, Government sites, World Health Organisation), or by setting boundaries around how much time you will allow yourself to read/listen to the news.

Change your perception

Now we know thoughts can be catastrophic, uncontained, and can snowball; when you notice your mind back on the topic of coronavirus try to take a step back. Labelling thoughts as thoughts can help, for example instead of “I have coronavirus and I could die”, try to rephrase this “I recognise I am having the thought that I have coronavirus and I could die”. Emphasising the difference between what is reality and what is a thought can really help you to gain perspective. We can’t stop ourselves from worrying, but we can train our brains to focus on something else. Make time for worry, but also put in boundaries with how much mental space you will allow coronavirus to take. Think about what is in your control and what is not. Worrying about coronavirus will not guarantee a better outcome, so to help you in the moment schedule some coronavirus free time where you can put your attention onto something else.

Take steps to minimise coronavirus related risk

“The advice that resonated for me was to assume you are a carrier and to put reasonable and appropriate precautions in place to prevent the risk to others.” – Monica Shafaq, CEO of The Kaleidoscope Plus Group.

Act in a way which could minimise the risk of infection to others, rather than acting from a place of avoidance or fear of contamination yourself. Coronavirus is spread through everyday contact, through touch, a cough, or a sneeze. If you’re sick, stay home. If you’re not sick, stay away from close contact with a person who is and engage in healthy habits when it comes to cleanliness. Listen to the advice from the medical professionals around how to practice good self-care, and actively follow social distancing rules.

Stay connected

We are always much better at offering advice and reassurance when it’s someone else going through a tricky time – remember our loved ones can do the same for us! They could provide a space to have your thoughts and feelings normalised and offer you some distraction or reassurance. Particularly as more and more of us are opting to self-isolate, remaining in contact with others will be even more important. You might need to get creative! Think about substitutes for face-to-face contact if you believe yourself to be a risk. If you are not able to speak with your friends or family, think about how to connect with those further afield. Suggestions could include writing a letter to a distant loved one, finding a new online group for your local community, or finding an online forum about a hobby or interest that you have.

Use your past coping skills

Think about what has helped you in the past when you have felt stressed or overwhelmed. It could be yoga, relaxation, mindfulness, trying a new recipe, talking with a friend, distracting yourself with a puzzle, making time for self-soothing (taking a nice bath for example)… the list is endless! What helps will be different from person to person – use what works for you.

Consider the 5 steps to mental wellbeing

The more you nurture your mental health, the more resilient to anxiety and stress you will enable yourself to be. Strategies for mental wellbeing include:

  • Staying connected with other people
  • Be physically active
  • Learn new skills
  • Give to others
  • Pay attention to the present moment.

You might need to adapt some of these if you are self-isolating or unable to participate in your usual activities. Some ideas include:

  • Trying a new exercise regime at home
  • Making time for a long phone call to a friend
  • Finding a new hobby
  • Practicing a mindfulness exercise

Information from the media is changing day by day. This can make times feel uncertain and the future unpredictable. Thinking too far ahead can feed those “what if.” thoughts. Breaking your day into chunks could help you to step back. Instead of thinking about the whole day, think about the “now and next”. What are you doing in this moment, and what do you plan to do in the next. Think in terms of the present and immediate future. You’ll deal with anything that comes up as you need to, but contemplating something that hasn’t happened yet can be a playground for anxious thoughts.

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